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控える， 扣える， ひかえる
1. to be temperate in, to refrain, to abstain, to hold back, to restrain oneself from excessive ...
2. to make notes, to jot down (e.g. phone number)
3. to be in preparation for, to be in waiting for
4. to be soon, to be in the offing
5. to be in a c...
准备，等待；避免，节制，控制，抑制，拽住，拉住；面临，迫近；做笔记，记下(如电话号码)