建前， 建て前， 立前， 立て前， たてまえ
1. face, official stance, public position or attitude (as opposed to private thoughts)
2. ceremony for the erection of the framework of a house
面貌、官方立场、公开立场或态度（相对于私人想法）；为人处世之道；房屋框架竖立仪式
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本音， ほんね
1. real intention, motive, true opinion, what one really thinks
真实意图，动机，真实观点，真实想法